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09-04-2013, 10:27 PM | #21 |
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Last time we talked to each other was the 6th grade. Where i live that counts as Elementary school.
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09-04-2013, 10:43 PM | #22 |
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I try to talk to her. Its just, she doesnt talk back. The stories/jokes, I would but aside from a few reference jokes only I would get for Toku, Im not one to make people laugh unless Im around my buddies and we're all makin fun of each other. Im just tryin my damnest to figure out how in the hell to get her to talk to me. Even if she isnt one to talk. Come Saturday Ill find out, even if I have to think hard as hell for subjects to talk about.
So would it be weird to ask her- "So I know you wanna be friends but, how can I be good friends with you when I know little to nothing about you?" Quote:
Originally Posted by Dramatized KRX of the Past
"So I watch this Japanese children's TV show, and in it the hero has many forms, because that's typical in Japanese children's TV shows. Anyway, in this one show I watched, the hero has a final form which he obtains after a long and emotional arc, and... the hero transforms into this form by putting a ring over a hand-shaped belt buckle, and the belt begins chanting, 'INFINITY! INFINITY! PLEASE! This final form has a sword which transforms into an axe, and it has a final attack. To perform this final attack, the hero high-fives the Dragon-Axe-Sword thing, causing it to grow to a ridiculously large size and to chant, 'KIRA, KIRA!' which is Japanese for 'SPARKLE, SPARKLE!' And in a brilliant flash of rainbows, explosions, and death, the hero slashes the monster with it."
Right now, the best thing you can do is wait and let her open up to you, but maybe nudge her in that direction from time to time. Show her that you care, and don't forget to follow through on the caring. Last edited by KRX; 09-05-2013 at 12:57 AM.. |
09-05-2013, 12:01 AM | #23 |
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I try to talk to her. Its just, she doesnt talk back. The stories/jokes, I would but aside from a few reference jokes only I would get for Toku, Im not one to make people laugh unless Im around my buddies and we're all makin fun of each other. Im just tryin my damnest to figure out how in the hell to get her to talk to me. Even if she isnt one to talk. Come Saturday Ill find out, even if I have to think hard as hell for subjects to talk about.
So would it be weird to ask her- "So I know you wanna be friends but, how can I be good friends with you when I know little to nothing about you?" |
09-05-2013, 12:13 AM | #24 |
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None of my friends watch any tokusatsu, but I can still make them laugh by explaining some concepts from the show. For example:
That was me illustrating Kamen Rider Wizard Infinity. It's not as funny as I could make it, but you basically can outline the sheer ridiculousness of the concepts. For instance, Den-O Sword form: a peach demon... Right now, the best thing you can do is wait and let her open up to you, but maybe nudge her in that direction from time to time. Show her that you care, and don't forget to follow through on the caring.
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09-05-2013, 03:28 AM | #25 |
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One of my biggest fears with women, is suggesting there is a relationship to be had. I rarely meet random women, and so if the girl I develop feelings for is a friend or a colleague or whatever I'm scared of what it may do to even hint at something more, and then have to face them every day. I'm not even talking about if we get together, then break up, I just mean if I miss read the signs and then they close to laugh in my face at the suggestion of us dating, and I have to face that embarrassment daily or something.
And considering how badly my relationships have gone in the past, the possible payoff doesn't seem worth the risk.
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09-05-2013, 08:02 AM | #26 |
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None of my friends watch any tokusatsu, but I can still make them laugh by explaining some concepts from the show. For example:
That was me illustrating Kamen Rider Wizard Infinity. It's not as funny as I could make it, but you basically can outline the sheer ridiculousness of the concepts. For instance, Den-O Sword form: a peach demon... Right now, the best thing you can do is wait and let her open up to you, but maybe nudge her in that direction from time to time. Show her that you care, and don't forget to follow through on the caring. Quote:
Im guessing you have tried asking her about her generically as a "so tell me bout yourself" which probably gets met with "there isn't much to tell". Im also guessing she may have a bit of a low self opinion? alsooooo does she have any older brothers? Seems like the type who has older brothers
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One of my biggest fears with women, is suggesting there is a relationship to be had. I rarely meet random women, and so if the girl I develop feelings for is a friend or a colleague or whatever I'm scared of what it may do to even hint at something more, and then have to face them every day. I'm not even talking about if we get together, then break up, I just mean if I miss read the signs and then they close to laugh in my face at the suggestion of us dating, and I have to face that embarrassment daily or something.
And considering how badly my relationships have gone in the past, the possible payoff doesn't seem worth the risk.
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09-05-2013, 08:50 AM | #27 |
「蝙蝠騎士の魔界<ブラム>」
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One of my biggest fears with women, is suggesting there is a relationship to be had. I rarely meet random women, and so if the girl I develop feelings for is a friend or a colleague or whatever I'm scared of what it may do to even hint at something more, and then have to face them every day. I'm not even talking about if we get together, then break up, I just mean if I miss read the signs and then they close to laugh in my face at the suggestion of us dating, and I have to face that embarrassment daily or something.
And considering how badly my relationships have gone in the past, the possible payoff doesn't seem worth the risk. I've been burnt to man, but you never know until you try. You can not succeed without the risk of failure. And if you're not afraid of failure, man you can go anywhere or do anything.
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09-05-2013, 09:05 AM | #28 |
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Just throwing this out there: if you are going on a first date, try something where you have a task to accomplish together, like bowling, or a cooking class, or a crafting workshop, or a walking tour/scavenger hunt. Having something to do besides sitting at a table staring at each other will help break the ice, and get conversation going because you are doing the task together. It's sort of a cliche but it works.
Being friends with a girl you are romantically interested in is very frustrating, but without a basis of friendship, it's hard for a relationship to last. Again, another cliche, but my wife and I are each other's beast friends. We have some things we share an interest in, and some things we do not (the other night she said to me "I just don't get Ultra," heh!), but our relationship grew based on our respect and friendly admiration. This is not to say that being stuck in the Friend Zone doesn't suck! But XW1n5t0nX (how the heck do you remember that when you log in?) is right -- you cannot succeed without the risk of failure! And of course there is the old "go out with a group of friends" chestnut.
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09-05-2013, 09:07 AM | #29 |
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My last two relationships, including the one I'm in now, have been long distance through the computer. I just get along with people better through an internet connection.
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09-05-2013, 09:08 AM | #30 |
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I guess my name is like the guerrilla marketers from Akibaranger XD
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