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06-10-2014, 10:05 PM | #361 |
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Not necessarily dealing with a relationship per say but I still think its worth posting here.
I don't feel like any girls are into to me. Not just relationship or looks wise, but personality wise too. I crack jokes and can be caring but my friends always go back to the other kid who's more fun then I am. So I just feel.... not lonley... but distant, from every other girl my age. Not to say i don't have any good female freinds but its just nobody pays attention to me for that long. Is it just a mental thing I am thinking just to explain this shit or should I (or have to) change in order to make myself more attractive? |
06-10-2014, 10:12 PM | #362 |
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You shouldn't have to change for anybody, let alone to make yourself attractive. I can understand your doubts though. It's a tough thing trying to figure why you can be a genuinely nice person to people, especially those of the opposite sex but be passed up for somebody else for either a romantic relationship or even a regular old friendship. It's one of those things that's hard to come up with an explanation though. You could be liked but the person just likes somebody more and finds them more fun to hang out with. Don't let it get you down and don't change. Just stay who you are. Sooner or later, you'll get your time to shine in your group of friends, and maybe even find someone special to be with.
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06-10-2014, 11:11 PM | #363 |
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Not necessarily dealing with a relationship per say but I still think its worth posting here.
I don't feel like any girls are into to me. Not just relationship or looks wise, but personality wise too. I crack jokes and can be caring but my friends always go back to the other kid who's more fun then I am. So I just feel.... not lonley... but distant, from every other girl my age. Not to say i don't have any good female freinds but its just nobody pays attention to me for that long. Is it just a mental thing I am thinking just to explain this shit or should I (or have to) change in order to make myself more attractive? It's not your anything that may cause this situation. It's just that everybody has different interests and someone out there is interested in someone like you. You just need to find them. If it helps, try finding girls that share interests with you, and no matter how far-fetched it may seem, she will exist. Just be patient and don't lose hope. |
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06-11-2014, 01:19 AM | #364 |
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Not necessarily dealing with a relationship per say but I still think its worth posting here.
I don't feel like any girls are into to me. Not just relationship or looks wise, but personality wise too. I crack jokes and can be caring but my friends always go back to the other kid who's more fun then I am. So I just feel.... not lonley... but distant, from every other girl my age. Not to say i don't have any good female freinds but its just nobody pays attention to me for that long. Is it just a mental thing I am thinking just to explain this shit or should I (or have to) change in order to make myself more attractive? But living on the fringe isn't so bad. You meet a lot more people to share in your eccentricities. |
06-26-2014, 02:40 PM | #365 |
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Like a lot of stories, this one starts with "so there's this girl at work..." and honestly I'm not exactly asking for advice on some sort of direct question but as my only friends know the girl in question, I don't really have anywhere to vent this so ch'yeah.
You see, the girl in question is older than me, not massively but older, she's also pretty important at my work and I'm...well not, so there is a certain barrier between us at work naturally anyway. So I quickly allowed myself to appreciate her as something pretty to look at, and didn't let feelings run into anything else. However, over the course of subsequent training sessions, talks during breaks and just the slow burn of budding a relationship entirely contained in a work place we got a lot closer, and started to get on a lot better. She started complimenting me a lot, especially my sense of humour and just how I am as a person. A girl should be allowed to compliment a guy, without the guy assuming they're into them but I was into her already, and once she started saying things like that I couldn't help but wonder in a way I'd managed to stop myself before. But then there are other things. Firstly, she's not movie star gorgeous, but she's pretty in a girl next door way and she clearly knows it. She isn't slutty, or overtly flirtatious but she puts it on a bit, and as cute as the overall effect is, the fear of her being disingenuous is my main fear now. We all put in on at work a bit, but higher up folks do ESPECIALLY as it's like half their job role. So right now I feel like I'd love to ask her out, worst she can say is no but at the same time I think it'd crush my soul a lot more if the no was then followed by the fact that she can't stand me at all and was putting it on for the sake of her job or that she was deliberately just generating this interest for her own amusement as she likes the attention. I also get that this makes either her sound like a horrible person, or me like a total self privileged weirdo but I dunno pretty girls with a lot of male attention don't generally compliment me so readily, and seem to enjoy my company so much and whenever they have it's never ended well for me.
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07-31-2014, 02:59 PM | #366 |
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Can I post in this thread without this topic? After this, yes.
(Anyone remember that time I tried to ask a girl out and she was a B about it leading to a bunch of other BS? Yeah her.) She was in trouble or something, my parents helped her, apperantly she was having boyfriend trouble, so she had come crying to me. I think acted like I cared, saying some romantic BS, then did what she did to me and pretty much told her to shove off as I knew she didnt really care anyway. Yeah. I have strange dreams and this girl gets in them every once in awhile, a few weeks ago it was her and her friend (who is more of a... B, than she is). My subconscious is weird. But I think last night was me fully realizing finally aint shit gonna happen.
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08-25-2014, 04:50 PM | #367 |
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So I found a girl I like and I think she likes me back. I become the most confident I ever am in my life when I talk to her. Problem is, she isn't tell me straight up that she likes me because all of the people she hangs out with and even in our class are pressuring the shit out of her. When I said some confident things to her, they were constantly saying that I was her boyfriend and that she wants to suck my dick. And I don't like a crowd pressuring me while I'm trying to do something. So how could I get her to talk without dudes around her acting like that?
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08-25-2014, 04:52 PM | #368 |
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So I found a girl I like and I think she likes me back. I become the most confident I ever am in my life when I talk to her. Problem is, she isn't tell me straight up that she likes me because all of the people she hangs out with and even in our class are pressuring the shit out of her. When I said some confident things to her, they were constantly saying that I was her boyfriend and that she wants to suck my dick. And I don't like a crowd pressuring me while I'm trying to do something. So how could I get her to talk without dudes around her acting like that?
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08-25-2014, 04:53 PM | #369 |
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So I found a girl I like and I think she likes me back. I become the most confident I ever am in my life when I talk to her. Problem is, she isn't tell me straight up that she likes me because all of the people she hangs out with and even in our class are pressuring the shit out of her. When I said some confident things to her, they were constantly saying that I was her boyfriend and that she wants to suck my dick. And I don't like a crowd pressuring me while I'm trying to do something. So how could I get her to talk without dudes around her acting like that?
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08-25-2014, 05:12 PM | #370 |
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So I found a girl I like and I think she likes me back. I become the most confident I ever am in my life when I talk to her. Problem is, she isn't tell me straight up that she likes me because all of the people she hangs out with and even in our class are pressuring the shit out of her. When I said some confident things to her, they were constantly saying that I was her boyfriend and that she wants to suck my dick. And I don't like a crowd pressuring me while I'm trying to do something. So how could I get her to talk without dudes around her acting like that?
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