Nah, this comment is still pretty valuable.

Alright. The girl I wanted to date but after a whole ordeal, I figured it wasnt goin to work and Id be stuck in the friendzone. But after this weekend and a few late-night talks with a buddy, Im thinkin of tryin again. Im gonna see how long this lasts, if itll get more than friends. I actually have help I think this time, unlike last time, Along with the fact I actually got to talk to her this weekend, first time Ive said somethin to her in about a month. I honestly have been questionin this forever, to give up or not give up? I dont know. Id love to see it work out, but I dont want to give up without givin 100%. I really dont know to give up or not. Its been more on my mind the last two nights than anythin else. I guess Ill have to wait and see...

Just go for it man. I'd say give it one last attempt at 100% effort wise. If nothing comes of it after that, then maybe it's time to move on.

I really dont want to give up. Im not sure the reason, just after this weekend, somethin is tellin me I shouldnt. But Im afraid its just me wantin a girlfriend so Ill think I could make it work with anyone. I hope thats just me doubtin myself and this could work, I dont know if it would last or not, long as I can see what might happen. Since I gave up after being impacient and tryin to push what needs time.

I hate this complicated crap.

this. I have the exact(well almost)same problem. I really like her, but I am way to timid to talk she gave me her number but every time I try to text her my phone says that this number is no longer a working number even though I know it is.

Dude, Im not even sure there. She gave it to you so I dont know if she is messin with you or its a phone issue. I hope it works out with you. Maybe ask her in person about it?

the problem is I never get to see her. thank you though.

That does suck, I might not be able to talk to mine very well, but I do see sometimes. Hope it can work out with you.

thanks.

So... My best friend had an idea... I go buy a couple flowers and sent them anonymously to the girl Im tryin to go out with (yes the same one...) for Valentines Day. Here was his plan-
1, go to walmart or whereever and get the flowers, send a snapchat photo to her and everyone else captionin it "Flowers for...?"
2, take it school and wait for the end of the day when they announce the stuff for people
3, hope she takes the bait.

My negative mind keeps makin me doubt it, but I really dont know...

Isn't this the girl that upset you a while ago?

Worth a shot. What you should do though is make it a game of cat and mouse. In the morning sneak to her house and leave it in a box anonymously. Include a note saying by the end of the day she'll know who sent it. Thrown in some instructions for her to find stuff that will get her closer to knowing the truth.

Yeah. But, as I said back a few weeks ago, I honestly realize that was a bit my fault for tryin to go on a date after like a week of talkin, especially when she isnt much one for talkin, and I am awkward as hell. But that is still no excuse for what had happened, reason Ive been treadin easily this time.

...1, she lives 15 minutes from me (5 if I take backroads...) 2, I am not that secretive. 3, Im not even if sure if this will work, so Im just thinkin of doin the flowers.

But! I did walk in front of her leavin lunch today, wasnt goin to say anythin as I figured I wouldnt even try today (since I said I am awkward as hell). But she said "Hey RJ" Before I said anythin, then I asked her how she was likin the weather, she said no. Then I was tryin to think of somethin else to say, when my other buddy decides to grab my shoulders and mess with my, she just walks off and Im tryin not to kick someones ass... >_<

B b but it's romantic :(

Anyways I'm going to attempt to ask my friend out sometime around Valentine's day or so. Just have to resist buying toys...and books...and my movies...would one of you put my wallet in a concentration camp until after the 14th?

I know its romantic dude, I just really dont know how well this will work out, and if I knew Id have a better chance of pullin it off I would :)

Ill do it! But hidin your wallet doesnt do shit, I lost mine in my room for a week and I still spent money :lol

Well. I figured since I posted in this for everything concerning this, Id finish it here. So, after finding out some things, hearing a few things from my best friend, and realizing the way shit happens, I give up on this girl. I will still try to be a friend, but relationship? Nope. Not gonna friggin happen. I dont mind actually. Especially with the bullshit thats happened the last two weeks.

So valetines idea? Nope. I know I said I wasnt giving up, but Im just deciding to end something that shouldve ended months ago.

Oh and for anyone mad at at boy/girl, take this bit of advice- Pray for them...
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=atBg9zLI2bA

I kind of want to ask the girl i like to eat lunch with me, i say kind of because whenever i try to start a conversation with a girl it always ends up like a bunch of gibberish.

Well try to have confidence in yourself to ask her to lunch. I understand I have the same trouble too at times.

Start by having her talk. Bring up a topic you know she likes and then just go from there.

Me and my woman are great, if I'm honest. The distance thing is still an issue. But we're working on that. She's my rock, she makes everything else worth enduring.

I'm going to marry that crazy woman.

Just think of what to say, or think a subject through and figure out what she likes.

I'm not sure if it's just my imagination but whenever she sits next to me she laughs at a lot of the things i do, other times she's amazed at how fast i do my work.

...That's good right?

I'd say so.

So it's prom season at my school, and there's a certain somebody that I want to go with. I have this one friend that kept bugging me to say who that was.
Then today, this friend, knowing full well who I actually want to go with, makes an embarrassingly huge chalk drawing on a sidewalk asking me out. I'm in between confused and flustered.

I really not a fan of being in this kind of drama.

I'm sorry. Dang...I don't know what to say, that sounds really awkward.

You need to make a decision before you ask anybody out. Don't ask the person you really want to go with, and if you're turned down, then ask out your friend. He'll probably be happy, but nobody wants to be the second choice. Just take some time and think everything out, weigh your options one could say.

Wow. Sounds like something Id do :lol Not sure, maybe talk to your friend about it before you do anything?

So I have this girl who is in all of my classes that I sorta like and I am friends with. In the first period I have with her, I complimented her by saying that she was hot straight to her face and took it as a compliment. So, I go back to school on Monday but I don't know how to follow it up. Wether I should move this forward or not acknowledge it or try something different?

I'd say go for it, she reacted nicely to you "flirting" with her.
Remember in this kind of situation the worst case scenario is that nothing happens, so don't worry.

Well, just before the accident, I was hanging out with friends at Disneyland, then we watched Captain America. I was deadset on asking out my crush, but when the moment came, she was like "I'm tired" (we were giving each other good bye hugs) and walked towards her car.

See, the week before we were discussing what she likes her first date to be like and what kind of guy she likes. I don't know if she was giving me hints or just telling me, but that won't stop me from asking her. Though, now I gotta wait until I get my own car back before I can ask her out :/. And probably have to wait til next month since she's crewing a show soon...

That just gives you more time to perfect the perfect first date.

Still, waiting is quite terrible. But I trust there is a positive side.

Well, as soon as the 29th of October hits it'll be anniversary #2 of me & my girlfriend dating, & Tuesday the third of June is her birthday, I'm planning on getting her something special, before you guys ask about the age difference between me & my GF, I'm is 21 & she is 32 going on 33, don't ask how the hell it works cause I don't even know myself, but when my grandpa dies & I end up going to England to start my new life & career there, I'm sadly gonna break up with her, that's gonna be years from now cause my grandpa's pretty healthy for a 73 year old man. Also, holy shit I didn't even know we had this thread till a few minutes ago :lol.

lol well we do.

ok for me i just got a Tattoo a week ago on saturday i want to get another one but my GF said know. what should i do get it any way with out her knowing or go by her. i love her to bit but my left should feels naked now since i had my first tattoo done one my right arm.

Ask her why she doesn't want you to get another one. If she gives a very thought out and good explanation, then I'd say don't do it. But if she just replies with "Because I said so" or something along those lines, then she kinda loses all credibility within her argument.

I'm contemplating whenever or not to use the phone number my crush gave me.
It's not due to fear of rejection but fear i'll get a scary voice on the other end. That happened last time someone i knew gave me they're number.

yea i know what you mean.

sent her text and she told get anothrer one if want another i jut get used to it

I don't want to spam the "how is everyone today thread" with this topic, but i hope that what i want to do with my crush tomorrow goes well.
Nervous as all hell.

Last week, I told the girl I liked that I like her and want to go out on a date with her. She said that she's not into me that way.

So now what? I'm down 2 "I'm not into you"s for 2 times I've asked. Should I just wait for awhile to ask girls out again or not?

Struck down twice by the same girl or just in general?

In general.

Two different girls from my two different groups of friends had a very similar response to me.