[Phaseborg]

[QUOTE=Annuga;653611]No, we broke up ages ago on good terms. I accidentally implied I wanted to get back together and didn't realize what I did[/QUOTE

I mean...when it comes to rejection, all the other person can do is deal with it in their own way.

If you don't like'em, you don't like'em- you're more than allowed to say no to them, and if they don't like that- as much of a heartless person as I may sound like: Tough s---.

You can't make somebody like you, they have to get that through their head- and if they can't, and they take the rejection far too personally and possibly develop a grudge against you for it- again, as heartless as I may sound: That's their problem.

I've been cheated on multiple times, I have been dumped multiple times, and yes it hurts- but one thing I never ever did was go BACK to that relationship- because if it didn't work the first time, what makes you think it'll work now?

It's like taking a crappy tire and putting it back on the car- why? Why do that?

All you can do is say no to them, hope they understand, and if they can't: Sorry, nothing you can say or do about it. That's just how it goes.