[vin13ish]

What would happens if your girlfriend or your boyfriend is trying to throw away your Kamen Rider Action Figures, Your collection of Anime Blu-Ray and any Manga Book into a trash because they want you to be grown up!

This is a What-If Situation and how would you feel about them trying to make you a mature adult

[Guyver Spawn]

I won't let them control on what I enjoy. A real boyfriend/girlfriend/wife/husband should respect on what you enjoy and should not judge you for it. I rather be alone than be with someone who would not accept me for who I'm.

[EpsilonX]

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Originally Posted by vin13ish

What would happens if your girlfriend or your boyfriend is trying to throw away your Kamen Rider Action Figures, Your collection of Anime Blu-Ray and any Manga Book into a trash because they want you to be grown up!

This is a What-If Situation and how would you feel about them trying to make you a mature adult

I'd dump them. If they can't respect my interests or who I am as a person then I have no time to waste on them. Maturity comes from your ability to react to and handle situations, not whether or not you have a collection of figures. I'd say throwing away somebody's stuff because you don't like it is far more immature than owning figures and manga.

[Castellan Zilla]

Man, long distance relationships are the bomb diggity.

[GreenPsychoRanger]

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Originally Posted by vin13ish

What would happens if your girlfriend or your boyfriend is trying to throw away your Kamen Rider Action Figures, Your collection of Anime Blu-Ray and any Manga Book into a trash because they want you to be grown up!

This is a What-If Situation and how would you feel about them trying to make you a mature adult

Well....

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Originally Posted by Guyver Spawn

I won't let them control on what I enjoy. A real boyfriend/girlfriend/wife/husband should respect on what you enjoy and should not judge you for it. I rather be alone than be with someone who would not accept me for who I'm.

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Originally Posted by EpsilonX

I'd dump them. If they can't respect my interests or who I am as a person then I have no time to waste on them. Maturity comes from your ability to react to and handle situations, not whether or not you have a collection of figures. I'd say throwing away somebody's stuff because you don't like it is far more immature than owning figures and manga.

What those two said.

[H3N51N]

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Originally Posted by vin13ish

What would happens if your girlfriend or your boyfriend is trying to throw away your Kamen Rider Action Figures, Your collection of Anime Blu-Ray and any Manga Book into a trash because they want you to be grown up!

This is a What-If Situation and how would you feel about them trying to make you a mature adult

I can understand that if someone is a collector & it goes too far in being really expensive & having no space in their house then okay, definitely cut back & rethink how you handle it.

But that's not what this sounds like. This is control over another person because they either hate that person's interests or don't want to be seen or associated with that hobby because it makes them look bad. And that's no good at all.

[Guyver Spawn]

I'm always worry about being stuck in the friend zone. It happens to me for the most time when I talk to girls. I either I get stuck in the friend zone or they turn me down badly.

My last relationship was two and half years ago with my girlfriend from Scotland. We dated for two months before she broke up for me for no reason around October 2013. She block me on Skype, on my phone, IMVU and E-mail. I remember in the morning that I told her on Skype that I would be running late because I need to run to the post office. When I came back home, she block me and didn't leave any message. I was so upset since then and I really like her too. I felt like that we got a long very well and we had a lot in common too. I never had much luck since then.

[H3N51N]

I think all the attempts someone makes at dating & relationships end up hurting them over the long run due to always coming up short. It's beyond frustrating when you wanna form a close connection with someone & you're met with nothing but rejection.

I'm not really sure how someone can deal with this, but with so many people in the world existing at once there are definitely those who have been through this as well. Hopefully comfort can come from those who are sympathetic & understanding or from knowing that you truly aren't alone in this.

I've never been close to having a girl I like wanting to be my friend, let alone be in a relationship with me. Not even with girls I'm not attracted too. So if my heart goes out to you guys & gals then so do lots of people, whether they post or not.

[Castellan Zilla]

Here's the thing, you don't need to be in a relationship to be happy. There's so much pressure in society that you need to be with someone. You need to be married, etc. It's complete horse shit.

I'm going to be 31 later this year and being on my own, alone, is one of the greatest things ever. I do what I want when I want. No fights, no hassles, just me all the time.

But, I'm also a self centered asshole. So the majority of the population can't even tolerate me, let alone wanna date me.

[Guyver Spawn]

I just started my night class today and I see a few girls that I find pretty cute looking in my class. I'm not very good at talking at girls and what I can do without coming creepy, awkward or lame?