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10-18-2020, 06:08 PM | #2111 |
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10-18-2020, 06:35 PM | #2112 |
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10-19-2020, 01:35 AM | #2113 |
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How was Kamen Rider Saber so far? Haven't started it, planning to do so next year but I'm itching to watch it already if it weren't for final project.
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10-19-2020, 09:51 AM | #2115 |
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I suppose it’s only fair I go into detail. We’ll be moving to London next year. It sounded fun and exciting at first, but I didn’t think we would actually move. I thought it would be a “what if” scenario and that’s it. The more I thought about it, the more I realised I didn’t want to go. I can’t stay with Nana because it would be too hard for her to look after me (I have anxiety, don’t go outside very much and need help with things like washing my hair), plus it would be a drain on her money. Another thing that worries me is that we can only stay in the house for a year, then we’ll have to move again. Whether we find somewhere else permanently in London or go back home, I don’t know, but it’s likely we’ll be staying in London. We’ll be taking our essential and important belongings with us and everything else will be put in storage, but the thought of relocating again scares me. Knowing me, I’ll have finally gotten used to the place and then it’ll be time to move. Also, the decorating, the rearrangement of the furniture—all that rigmarole. We already live in the North of England, so it’s not like we’ll be moving to another country—just a different part of the same country. I think I’m just sad to be leaving this house. We aren’t exactly friendly with the neighbours but we aren’t enemies either; we just don’t have much interaction with them. But we’ve been living here since 2004. As morbid as it’s going to sound, I think I expected myself to die while living here. Mam said she wasn’t sure if we should put any Christmas decorations on the window this year because of the move, and I said something like, “Why not? We aren’t moving until March. Different if we were moving in early January.” I then asked on what date we’ll be moving, she said the first, which is earlier than I thought. I thought we were moving at the end of the month. That set me off. I tried to hide that I was upset, but Mam caught me crying. We talked about it. She feared I was going to do something to myself.
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10-19-2020, 10:04 AM | #2116 |
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Thanks for sharing that. I'm sure it was tough, but for people who are worried about you, it helps to know a little bit about what's going on.
I'm sorry you're having to move, and then move again down the line. I'm doubly sorry that it's creating so much additional uncertainty and stress. Feeling comfortable in a place, having that place be a part of your identity (Kamen Rider Lolita Lives Here), and then knowing it's coming to an end... sure, that sounds rough, and it's the proper response to feel overwhelmed by it. The good news is, I guess, that you've got people who are supporting you. Your family, for one. I don't want to toss something trite in here, like What's A Home Really But The People You Live With, but there's maybe something to that. A lot of times comfort is just you forgetting about the things that stress you out, or bother you, and that just takes time. Having the people you care about around can make new places feel less new. A new place can be home quicker than you think. I'm honestly sorry that this is such a tough time for you. If there's anything else someone who lives very far away can do for you, even if it's just lend an ear, please don't hesitate to reach out. Us Kamen Riders have to stick together!
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10-19-2020, 12:47 PM | #2117 |
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10-19-2020, 04:39 PM | #2118 |
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Ah yes the moving experience. I remember when me and my family moved so I know exactly how you feel.
I used to live in the Philippines with my large family (my grandparents, uncles, aunts and cousins) until all of a sudden my mom and dad got better jobs in Singapore. So off we went to Singapore. I remember being very confused by everything and, as a person with autism, caused me a great deal of stress at first. I eventually became accustomed there after a few months and befriended a lot of people in the streets (yes you read that correctly)...until my dad got a job offer here in Australia. So off we go moving again, once again the usual dance of stress and anxiety hitting me. Unlike Phillippines to Singapore where the Asian culture and religious/superstitious atmosphere made transition bearable, the move to a Western-influenced country with secular ethics created a large culture shock. And even here in Australia we moved again from our first house to the one we live in right now. So yeah change and moving places is stressful, I know because I've moved 4 times (Philippines -> Singapore -> Australia house 1 -> Australia house 2), but let me assure you that the stress is only temporary. And you say that your mother worries that you'll do something to yourself? She sounds like someone reliable you can talk to; I advise talking about your problems if you two are close, it helps much more than you think. It sounds like you have a great family! I know it's not much, but I hope it helps. Hang in there, and we're always here for you. Last edited by gashatfreak; 10-19-2020 at 04:48 PM.. |
10-19-2020, 07:54 PM | #2119 |
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10-20-2020, 12:34 AM | #2120 |
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I suppose it’s only fair I go into detail. We’ll be moving to London next year. It sounded fun and exciting at first, but I didn’t think we would actually move. I thought it would be a “what if” scenario and that’s it. The more I thought about it, the more I realised I didn’t want to go. I can’t stay with Nana because it would be too hard for her to look after me (I have anxiety, don’t go outside very much and need help with things like washing my hair), plus it would be a drain on her money. Another thing that worries me is that we can only stay in the house for a year, then we’ll have to move again. Whether we find somewhere else permanently in London or go back home, I don’t know, but it’s likely we’ll be staying in London. We’ll be taking our essential and important belongings with us and everything else will be put in storage, but the thought of relocating again scares me. Knowing me, I’ll have finally gotten used to the place and then it’ll be time to move. Also, the decorating, the rearrangement of the furniture—all that rigmarole. We already live in the North of England, so it’s not like we’ll be moving to another country—just a different part of the same country. I think I’m just sad to be leaving this house. We aren’t exactly friendly with the neighbours but we aren’t enemies either; we just don’t have much interaction with them. But we’ve been living here since 2004. As morbid as it’s going to sound, I think I expected myself to die while living here. Mam said she wasn’t sure if we should put any Christmas decorations on the window this year because of the move, and I said something like, “Why not? We aren’t moving until March. Different if we were moving in early January.” I then asked on what date we’ll be moving, she said the first, which is earlier than I thought. I thought we were moving at the end of the month. That set me off. I tried to hide that I was upset, but Mam caught me crying. We talked about it. She feared I was going to do something to myself.
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