[XW1n5t0nX]

So isn't it a sign that somebody is into you when they constantly annoy/harass/do shit to you? Cause there's this girl in my manga club who, while probably active to begin with, is always poking me, taking my glasses, my ear cuff, and just all around being a pain in the ass.

Regardless of whay she does it, or if it's a sign, I'll be honest, she's pretty attractive, and is as demented as I am. Except she's just hyper actively demented, whereas I'm fucked up disturbed demented.

[algo448]

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Originally Posted by XW1n5t0nX

So isn't it a sign that somebody is into you when they constantly annoy/harass/do shit to you? Cause there's this girl in my manga club who, while probably active to begin with, is always poking me, taking my glasses, my ear cuff, and just all around being a pain in the ass.

Regardless of whay she does it, or if it's a sign, I'll be honest, she's pretty attractive, and is as demented as I am. Except she's just hyper actively demented, whereas I'm fucked up disturbed demented.

It's kind of tricky, she could simply be a really hyperactive person and you a easy target.

[XW1n5t0nX]

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Originally Posted by algo448

It's kind of tricky, she could simply be a really hyperactive person and you a easy target.

True, probably doesn't help that I constantly joke at her as much as she does me.

[algo448]

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Originally Posted by XW1n5t0nX

True, probably doesn't help that I constantly joke at her as much as she does me.

I'd say wait a bit before forming an opinion on it.
Just enjoy whatever you two have for now.

[XW1n5t0nX]

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Originally Posted by algo448

I'd say wait a bit before forming an opinion on it.
Just enjoy whatever you two have for now.

She's not even my friend Just a slight acquaintance from manga club.

[uchihabro77]

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Originally Posted by XW1n5t0nX

She's not even my friend Just a slight acquaintance from manga club.

She is the manga club, she possibly likes ya, and she is crazy as you are? I say go for it my friend

[XW1n5t0nX]

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Originally Posted by uchihabro77

She is the manga club, she possibly likes ya, and she is crazy as you are? I say go for it my friend

You're typoing tonight hard baka uchiboy

Eh, perhaps at our Christmas party I'll just ask for her number or a small date. If you met her and compared her craziness to mine, you'd call her sane probably. As I said, she's more of an active type of crazy in the sense of she's constantly touching some of us other members for her amusement. I'm the type of crazy that makes people think I could be a serial killer if I go nuts.

[uchihabro77]

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Originally Posted by XW1n5t0nX

You're typoing tonight hard baka uchiboy

Eh, perhaps at our Christmas party I'll just ask for her number or a small date. If you met her and compared her craziness to mine, you'd call her sane probably. As I said, she's more of an active type of crazy in the sense of she's constantly touching some of us other members for her amusement. I'm the type of crazy that makes people think I could be a serial killer if I go nuts.

Dude when have I ever speel checked myself?

Dude, I know on here, and Im sure youre the same outside of here, you dont seem that bad, you just have... bad hobbies... Id say. But I mean its you, if she doesnt like, who cares? There is others.

[KRX]

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Originally Posted by KyoryuGreen

Well you guys have inspired me, and I have been really really confused with my own problems.

So anyways this all started a couple months ago, I was being enveloped by my loneliness because I haven't had a relationship since last October which didn't end well. (I'll save the message board my entire love life, I'm 25 I have a very interesting history.) Anyways I met this girl at the bar I hang out with and started talking with her over facebook and the bar. She broke my loneliness and I felt amazing about her and just overall. I thought she liked me and thought I saw signs, it turns out she was just a fake bitch who stopped talking to me all together. So after that little event I started thinking more about this friend I have, I talk to her all the time and we have similar interests. I don't see her all the time but we talk all the time over the phone and I've think I've started to like her and want something more than friendship with her but I don't know if she likes me in that way or thinks about it. I keep going back and forth if I really like her or not and if I should ask her out. I've known her for a couple years now and honestly I was trying to flirt with her when I first met her.

So yeah I'm kind of lost right now.

I wish I could help you. The problem is, I'm dealing with that whole "Do-I-want-more-than-friendship?" problem myself. Really, the question you need to ask yourself is this: can you be open with her? Will she be willing to listen to your problems when you need someone to talk to? And will you be willing to do the same for her?

The key to these kinds of relationships is balance. It's like taking care of a plant. Neglect it, and it withers and dies. Take care of it too much, and you kill it with kindness. But provide it with the proper amount of space, while still giving it a healthy amount of care, and it will flower.

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Originally Posted by XW1n5t0nX

So isn't it a sign that somebody is into you when they constantly annoy/harass/do shit to you? Cause there's this girl in my manga club who, while probably active to begin with, is always poking me, taking my glasses, my ear cuff, and just all around being a pain in the ass.

Regardless of whay she does it, or if it's a sign, I'll be honest, she's pretty attractive, and is as demented as I am. Except she's just hyper actively demented, whereas I'm fucked up disturbed demented.

I'd say it's probably nothing. There's a girl like that in my Drama Class, but I know for a fact that she is not attracted to me. Some people are just like that.

[algo448]

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Originally Posted by XW1n5t0nX

She's not even my friend Just a slight acquaintance from manga club.

Emphasis on "whatever you have"

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Originally Posted by uchihabro77

Dude, I know on here, and Im sure youre the same outside of here, you dont seem that bad, you just have... bad hobbies... Id say. But I mean its you, if she doesnt like, who cares? There is others.

He's not hurting anybody, his hobbies are as good as any other.